Authentic Japanese Phrases for Chatrooms!
Chat rooms are so hot right now. Attract your favorite Japanese models by respecting their culture and language! They will appreciate your willingness to learn their language! Use the phrases below to attract them. Well, you can use them when you have sex in real life, too!
Greetings
Greetings always help start having a great conversation!
| こんにちは | Kon-nichi wa | Hello |
| こんばんは | Konban wa | Good evening |
| 元気ですか | Genki desu ka | How are you? Doing well? |
| どうも | Do-mo | Hey. (It’s a casual greeting that doesn’t carry a specific meaning.) |
| 今日はどんな感じ？ | Kyou wa don-na kanji? | How are you doing? |
Compliments
Always, always give them compliments! Many Japanese women are somewhat self-conscious, even though they are so beautiful and perfect in their unique ways. Make them feel comfortable and wanted!
| きれい | Kirei | Beautiful |
| かわいい | Kawaii | Cute, pretty |
| すてき | Suteki | Lovely, beautiful, nice, awesome, etc. |
| スタイルがいい | Style ga ii | Good figure, beautiful body |
| いやらしい | Iyarashii | Sexy, erotic |
| エロい | Eroi | Sexy, erotic |
The Japanese language doesn’t always use subjects. For instance, “You are beautiful. / あなたはきれいです。/ Anata wa kirei desu.” can be simply “Beautiful. / きれい。/ Kirei.” without any subject.
How are you doing? / 今日はどんな感じ？/ Kyou wa don-na kanji? doesn’t include any subject (you) in the Japanese phrase to begin with. Only using an adjective or a noun can work.
Asking/request
Being polite is a nice act in Japanese culture. So, ask things nicely during a chat, too. However, when you are having sexy fun times, casualty is usually fine!
| 見せて（ください） | Misete (kudasai) | (Please) show me… e.g., Show me your tongue. |
| キスして（ください） | Kisu shite (kudasai) | (Please) kiss me |
| なめて（ください） | Namete (kudasai) | (Please) lick… e.g., Lick the dildo –> Dildo wo namete. |
| 脱いで（ください） | Nuide (kudasai) | (Please) take off your clothes. |
Body parts
| あたま（頭） | Atama | Head |
| かみのけ（髪の毛） | Kami no ke | Hair |
| かお（顔） | Kao | Face |
| め（目） | Me | Eyes |
| はな（鼻） | Hana | Nose |
| くちびる | Kuchibiru | Lips |
| は（歯) | Ha | Teeth |
| くび（首） | Kubi | Neck |
| かた（肩） | Kata | Shoulders |
| うで（腕） | Ude | Arms |
| ひじ | Hiji | Elbows |
| て（手） | Te | Hands |
| ゆび（指） | Yubi | Fingers |
| むね（胸） | Mune | Chest |
| おっぱい | Oppai | Boobs, tits |
| ちくび（乳首） | Chikubi | Nipples |
| おなか（お腹） | Onaka | Belly |
| おしり（お尻） | Oshiri | Hip, booty |
| おまんこ | Omanko | Vagina |
| おちんちん | Ochin-chin | Penis, dick |
| おちんぽ | Ochinpo | Penis, dick |
| きんたま（金玉） | Kintama | Balls |
| あし（足） | Ashi | Legs |
| ひざ | Hiza | Knees |
| つまさき | Tsumasaki | Toes |
There is no notion of singular or plural embedded in nouns in Japanese. For instance, the word fingers in “Your fingers are beautiful.” is simply “yubi.”
Sexy words
These are some words you may hear during sexy times. Each woman is different, so they may say something uniquely erotic 💪
| いきそう | Iki-sou | I’m going to come |
| いく | Iku | I’m coming |
| きてる | Kiteru | It’s coming |
| ぬれてる（濡れてる） | Nureteru | I’m wet, it’s wet |
| でる（出る） | Deru | Cum for men, squirt for women |
| しお（潮） | Shio | Squirt |
| かたい（硬い） | Katai | It’s hard |
| おおきい（大きい） | Ookii | It’s big |
| あつい（熱い） | Atsui | It’s hot |
| やわらかい（柔らかい） | Yawarakai | It’s soft |
| なま（生） | Nama | Bareback, no condom |
| おく（奥） | Oku | Deep spot |
Expressions women may use (during chat and sex)
No is no in the real world. But, when it comes to sex in Japanese culture, no can be a bit tricky because no can be a way to express shyness during their intensive pleasures. This is super sexy 👠 Always be respectful and verbally communicate to make sure you are both consenting.
| いれて（入れて） | Irete | Put it in, come inside me |
| さわって（触って） | Sawatte | Touch me |
| きもちいい（気持ちいい） | Kimochi ii | Feels good |
| かんじる（感じる） | Kanjiru | Feels good, good sensations |
| いい | Ii | Good, nice |
| すき（好き） | Suki | I like it |
| やばい | Yabai | * Feels good in a heightened way |
| やだ | Yada | No, I don’t like it, stop it |
| だめ | Dame | No, stop it, you can’t |
| やめて | Yamete | Stop it |
| くすぐったい | Kusuguttai | Ticklish |
| はずかしい（恥ずかしい） | Hazukashii | I feel shy, I’m embarrased |
| もっとして | Motto shite | Do it more, give it to me more |
| おかしくなりそう | Okashiku narisou | Making me crazy, I’m going crazy |
| おくまできてる（奥まできてる） | Oku made kiteru | It’s reaching deep in me |
| もっとつよく（もっと強く） | Motto tsuyoku | Harder |
| たたいて（叩いて） | Tataite | Spank me |
| くびしめて（首絞めて） | Kubi shimete | Choke me |
| ぐりぐりして | Guri guri shite | Glide |
| いっちゃだめ | Iccha dame | Don’t come yet |
やばい/yabai is an interesting word that can mean so many ways. When someone says the word during sex, it often expresses a heightened pleasure, sometimes unbearably good.
BDSM, Fetish Words
| ごしゅじんさま（ご主人様） | Goshujin sama | Master, mistress |
| じょうおうさま（女王様） | Jo-ou sama | Dominatrix, mistress |
| どれい（奴隷） | Dorei | Slave, sub |
| しもべ | Shimobe | Slave, sub |
| げぼく（下僕） | Geboku | Slave, sub |
| がんめんきじょう（顔面騎乗） | Ganmen kijyou | Facesitting |
| ムチ | Muchi | Whips |
| ろうそく | Rousoku | Candles, wax |
| なわ（縄） | Nawa | Ropes |
| しばり（縛り）・きんばく（緊縛） | Shibari/kinbaku | Shibari/kinbaku, rope play |
| ほうち（放置） | Houchi | Abandonment, neglect play |
| はなフック（鼻フック） | Naha hook | Nose hooks |
| かぐ（家具） | Kagu | Furniture |
| せいすい（聖水） | Seisui | Pee, golden shower |
| おうごん（黄金） | Ougon | Poop |
| しつけ | Shitsuke | Discipline, teaching, training |
| ちょうきょう（調教） | Cho-kyo | Discipline, teaching, training |
| エムお（M男） | Emu o | Submissive men |
| エムじょ（M女） | Emu jo | Submissive women |
| ちかん（痴漢） | Chikan | Pervert (mainly men) |
| ちじょ（痴女） | Chijo | Pervert (women), but it’s used for women who like to be sexually forward with men |
| フェチ | Fechi | Fetish |
| あしフェチ（足フェチ） | Ashi fechi | Leg or foot fetish |
| においフェチ（匂いフェチ） | Nioi Fechi | Smell fetish, olfactophilia |
| けフェチ（毛フェチ） | Ke fechi | Hair fetish |
| くすぐりフェチ | Kusuguri fechi | Tickle fetish |
| ストッキング | Stockingu | Stockings, pantyhose |
| スカトロ | Sukatoro | Scatology, scat, pooping play |
